The widow of a man who died in Italy in suspicious circumstances says the support she got was “like a jigsaw that had not been put together effectively”.

Trudy Cowan’s husband Russell, 44, from Derbyshire, died of “catastrophic” head injuries during a trip in 2016.

She says her family was “essentially left on our own” by the UK authorities.

Her comments come as a report from the victims’ commissioner for England and Wales called on the government to offer more help in such cases.

Dame Vera Baird said support for the bereaved was “patchy and sometimes inadequate”.

Every year between 60 and 90 UK citizens die in suspicious circumstances overseas.

Ex-RAF officer Russell, from Chesterfield, had been in Menaggio near Lake Como with three friends to take part in a classic car rally for charity.

He phoned his wife, with whom he had two children, on Saturday, 4 June, 2016 to say he was going out for a meal and was leaving his phone in his room.

Trudy received a call on the Sunday morning from one of Russell’s friends telling her that her partner of 25 years had been involved in an accident and had died.

“Our priorities were getting to Italy, finding out what happened, and getting Russell back home,” she says.

“But the support mechanisms that should have been in place for somebody that had lost someone abroad – they weren’t there or available for us.”

She says the Foreign Office emailed to say nobody would be coming to meet them or help them with the local police.

The family were not offered a translator or a family liaison officer, she says, while police in the UK said the incident was out of their jurisdiction.

“Everywhere we turned, we were basically told ‘I’m sorry but we can’t help you’,” she says. “It was like trying to swim in a sea of custard, blindfolded.

“It’s just not a joined-up approach. It’s unwieldy for families that are trying to navigate through a system at a time when you’re expected to make decisions at the worst point in your life, when your mind is like a fog.”

Italian authorities concluded his death was an accident after he fell 8m (26ft) from a fence.

But his family do not believe it was an accident – a UK coroner ruled in 2017 that there may have been third party involvement – and an appeal against the Italian ruling is being heard in Como next month.

‘Uphill struggle’

Trudy’s case was one of those looked at as part of the report published by the Victims’ Commissioner on Wednesday.

Four years ago the Foreign Office set up a dedicated team to support people whose loved ones were killed or murdered outside the UK, but Dame Vera Baird said it was still an uphill struggle.

Her report cites the case of a bereaved mother who said the Foreign Office would not provide an interpreter for a court hearing in case they made a mistake – the family sued them.

A woman whose partner died in India claimed the Foreign Office advised her to have the body cremated rather than repatriated because it was cheaper.

Dame Vera said families should get the same entitlements as they do in the UK.

Among 17 recommendations, she said families of those murdered abroad should be entitled to financial help under the criminal injuries compensation scheme.

The Ministry of Justice said the proposal would be considered as part of a wider review.

Trudy says she “fully endorses” the recommendations, although she says she would not personally have pursued financial compensation.

“As a family we just want the truth. We want justice for Russell,” she says.

The Lucie Blackman Trust, which supports British nationals in crisis overseas, said it helps UK nationals with some of the issues cited by the report and urged anyone who is facing those problems to contact the charity.

The Foreign Office has been contacted for a response.